I have never really looked at it this way... but, it is a very good reminder that we serve a purpose in someone else's life. It's not always about us.
I would love to think that people I know just want to spend time with me and enjoy my sparkling personality...but, there are times when I feel like I am the only person they know when they need something I can give them. Be it a listening ear, a word of encouragement, a loan... lol!!

Trying to change my viewpoint about how I see myself in relationships, is probably the best thing I can do. Knowing that I am valuable to another at any point and time in their life, helps validate my purpose here.

I'm not so worried anymore about who calls when or for what. I'm just glad they call and I love every one of them. Toward the end of my friend Shirley's life, we didn't communicate so much. She was often not able to. But on her more lucid days, I knew that she needed to hear my voice. To be reassured and lifted up. I often felt that I failed her. And knowing that she thought the world of me, was always a mystery beyond my comprehension.

We have a purpose. It is not to "carry the world"... but it is to "care... in the world that we live in."  Whenever we have a chance to do it. I hope I have been the candle light for others along the way, to light the darkened hours of those who, for whatever reason, chose me over someone else, to call.

Whose world have you illumined lately? Do you feel like you may need a light out of a darkened hallway? I know you have people around you who have benefitted from your light...give them a call.
Perhaps it's time for them to shine.

Regardless, feel good about yourself and what you do. You make a difference!